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How We Spent Our 2 Days in Rome — And Why I Planned It This Way

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We had 48 hours in Rome.

That sounds like plenty of time… until you start looking at everything you want to see.

The Vatican. St. Peter’s Basilica. The Colosseum. The Roman Forum. The Trevi Fountain. And then, because I wanted to experience something a little different, an underground tour that took us beneath the streets of Rome into a hidden world of ancient water systems and history.

So the challenge wasn’t simply:

“What can we see in two days?”

It was:

“How can we see the most important things without spending our entire 48 hours rushing from one crowded attraction to another?”

That is where the planning really mattered.

I Didn’t Plan Rome as a Checklist

When I plan travel for my clients, one of the first things I look at isn’t how many attractions can we fit in?

It’s how do these experiences fit together geographically, logistically and emotionally?

Rome is one of those cities where you can technically see a lot in a short amount of time—but if you aren’t careful, you’ll spend half your day waiting in lines, navigating crowds and trying to figure out where you’re supposed to be next.

With only two days, I wanted our major sightseeing experiences to feel intentional.

So I divided our time into experiences where having a private guide would add real value and experiences where a smaller specialty tour made more sense.

That distinction made a huge difference.

Day One: Vatican City & St. Peter’s Basilica

We started with the Vatican.

This was one of the experiences where I knew I wanted a private guide.

Why?

Because the Vatican isn’t just a place where you walk through rooms and look at beautiful things.

There is so much history, symbolism and context that you can easily miss if you’re simply following the crowd and reading signs along the way.

Having our own guide meant we could ask questions, slow down when something caught our attention and actually understand what we were looking at.

And then there was St. Peter’s Basilica.

The scale of it is difficult to appreciate until you’re standing inside.

This was another reason I didn’t want to simply rush through the Vatican as part of a giant group tour.

When you have limited time, I don’t necessarily think you need to do everything privately.

I think you need to be strategic about where private guiding adds the most value.

For us, the Vatican was one of those places.

We also came off an overnight flight early that morning. We were tired, jet-lagged, but could not waste a day. Having a private tour was much easier on our jet-lagged minds on the first day.

Day Two: Ancient Rome

Day two was all about Ancient Rome.

We visited the Colosseum and Roman Forum, two places that were absolute must-sees for me.

Again, this is where having a guide can completely change the experience.

You can certainly walk through the Colosseum and Forum on your own.

But when someone can explain what you’re actually looking at, how the spaces were used and what life was like here, the ruins become more than just beautiful photographs.

And that’s something I think is worth paying for when your time is limited.

We weren’t trying to spend three days wandering around Rome hoping we’d stumble upon the important things.

We had 48 hours.

I wanted to understand what we were seeing.

And Of Course…Trevi

No trip to Rome feels complete without seeing the Trevi Fountain.

This was one of those stops that didn’t require a private guide.

We didn’t need someone to explain how to look at a fountain.

We just needed time to stand there and take it in.

And yes, we threw the coins.

Because sometimes the touristy things are touristy for a reason.

Then We Went Underground

For our next experience, I deliberately chose something completely different.

We went beneath the streets of Rome and discovered a completely different side of the city—one that most visitors don’t see simply by walking from one famous landmark to another.

This is one of my favorite things about planning travel.

Sometimes the experiences you remember most aren’t the ones that were at the top of every “10 Things to Do in Rome” list.

Instead of another large attraction with crowds of people, we did a smaller underground tour.

They’re the experiences that make you stop and think:

“Wait…this is underneath Rome?”

And because this was a smaller tour, it felt completely different from the Vatican experience.

That was intentional.

I didn’t want two days of large crowds and major attractions.

I wanted contrast.

So Why Did I Choose Private Guides?

This is probably the biggest takeaway from our two days in Rome.

I didn’t choose private guides because I think every travel experience needs to be private.

I chose them because we had limited time and there were certain places where the added expertise was worth the investment.

For us:

Private guide → Vatican & St. Peter’s

I wanted history, context, flexibility and the ability to ask questions.

Private guide → Colosseum & Roman Forum

I wanted the ancient ruins to actually come alive rather than simply walking through them.

Smaller specialty tour → Underground Rome

I wanted a more intimate experience that was completely different from the major attractions.

Self-guided sightseeing → Trevi Fountain

Because sometimes you don’t need a guide. You just need to be there.

The Real Luxury Wasn’t Seeing Everything

It was not wasting our time.

That’s the part of travel planning that isn’t always obvious when you’re looking at an itinerary online.

You can find a list of every attraction in Rome in about 30 seconds.

But figuring out:

  • What needs advance planning
  • Where a private guide is worth the money
  • Which experiences work better in a small group
  • How to group attractions geographically
  • How much time to realistically allow
  • When to build in breathing room
  • And what you can skip without feeling like you “missed Rome”

…that’s where a travel advisor can make a difference.

We had only 48 hours.

We didn’t see everything.

And that was okay.

We saw the places that mattered most to us, experienced them in a way that felt meaningful, and still had moments where we could simply wander, look around and enjoy being in Rome.

Because a great itinerary isn’t the one where you check the most boxes.

It’s the one where you come home feeling like you actually experienced the place.

And if you’re planning a trip to Rome and trying to figure out how to make limited time work, that’s exactly the kind of planning I love helping with.

You tell me what you want to experience. I’ll help you figure out how to make it all fit.

cruise, Italy, Memory Keeping, Travel Planning

Is the Norwegian Cruise Line Haven Worth It? My Honest Experience

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Before our Mediterranean cruise, I had a question I hear from clients all the time:

Is The Haven really worth the extra money?

Welcome Hugo Spritz in the Haven Lounge

After spending seven nights aboard Norwegian Cruise Line’s Norwegian Epic in The Haven, I finally have a firsthand answer.

And it’s not simply yes or no.

I think The Haven is absolutely worth considering for the right traveler—but I wouldn’t recommend it to everyone.

Here’s why.

First, What Exactly Is The Haven?

The Haven is Norwegian Cruise Line’s premium suite experience.

Think of it as having a more private, elevated experience within a larger cruise ship.

You still have access to everything happening throughout the ship—the restaurants, entertainment, pools, bars, activities and ports—but you also have your own quieter spaces and additional services to make the cruise feel a little more special.

And for a Mediterranean cruise, that distinction mattered to me.

We weren’t spending all day sitting around the ship.

We were getting up early, exploring cities, meeting private guides, climbing Mount Etna, walking through Florence and generally trying to squeeze every possible experience out of our port days.

Coming back to a quieter, more comfortable space at the end of those days was a luxury I appreciated.

The Biggest Benefit Wasn’t the Suite

Don’t get me wrong.

The suite was beautiful, comfortable and spacious.

But after the cruise, when I think about what made The Haven worthwhile for us, the room isn’t actually at the top of my list.

It was the overall experience.

From the moment we arrived at the ship, we felt like we were starting our vacation rather than beginning a logistical exercise.

We had priority embarkation, and a butler actually led us onboard.

That sounds like a small thing.

It wasn’t.

After traveling to Rome, spending 2 days touring in the heat wave and getting ourselves to the port, being able to walk in, get oriented and start enjoying the ship without dealing with a long embarkation process in a tent with no a/c was fantastic.

And that theme continued throughout the cruise.

Priority Embarkation

If you’ve ever stood in a cruise terminal watching the clock while waiting to get onboard, you understand the appeal here.

We were able to move through the embarkation process quickly and get started with our vacation.

Is that alone worth paying for The Haven?

Probably not. But it was pretty sweet! Video below.

https://youtube.com/shorts/j3pMu6JXLl0?feature=share: Is the Norwegian Cruise Line Haven Worth It? My Honest Experience

But it’s one of several benefits that, when added together, made the experience worthwhile for us.

And that’s an important distinction.

I don’t look at any one Haven perk and say, “That’s worth thousands of dollars!”

I look at the entire experience and ask:

Does the combination of these things make the vacation meaningfully better for this traveler?

That’s how I approach travel planning for my clients, too.

The Butler

Having a butler was another part of The Haven experience that I really enjoyed.

I wasn’t exactly sure how I would use a butler. I’m generally a “do it yourself” kinda gal.

Our butler was there to help with the details and make things easier. They are very good at helping people who don’t know what they need, like us, and just as good with those who get on knowing exactly what they need.

Butler service breakfast
Fruit every afternoon
Evening Treats

And after a long day exploring a Mediterranean port, there’s something very nice about coming back to a space where you don’t have to think quite so hard about everything.

This is one of those areas where I think expectations matter.

A butler isn’t going to magically transform your cruise into a completely different vacation.

Janet escorting us down the elevator on our last port day in Marseille

But having someone available to help with certain details can add a level of personalized service that you simply don’t get in a standard cabin.

We met our butler, Janet, our first afternoon and in talking we mentioned an early private tour the next morning. She immediately handed us the room service breakfast and told us to write the exact time we wanted breakfast delivered and leave it on the door tonight. She delivered breakfast at the exact time so we could get off the ship first thing, escorted by a butler, to meet our guide.

Janet asked what snacks we preferred every afternoon when we came back from touring. Sweet or salty or a combination. If you go, ask for the BLTs! Trust me. She kept ice water stocked and ice.

For travelers who really value service and convenience, that’s meaningful.

Concierge Service

The Haven concierge was another benefit I appreciated.

When you’re dealing with multiple ports, private tours, transportation, dining and a packed itinerary, having someone onboard who can help with logistics is valuable.

Again, it’s about convenience.

And I’ve come to realize that convenience is one of the things I’m willing to pay for when I travel.

Not because I’m looking for someone else to do everything for me.

Because I want to spend my vacation experiencing the destination—not standing in line, figuring out logistics or troubleshooting something that could have been handled more easily.

The Haven Spaces

One of my favorite things about staying in The Haven was having access to spaces that felt more peaceful and private.

Mediterranean cruising can be busy.

Really busy.

You’re getting off the ship and exploring major cities, archaeological sites, museums and villages.

Some days we walked for hours.

So having somewhere quiet to retreat to afterward was wonderful. The Sun Deck was never busy.

It gave us the best of both worlds.

Haven Courtyard
Haven Sun Deck
Haven Sun Deck
Reading in Courtyard
Haven Hot Tub

We could head out into the middle of all the action when we wanted to.

And we could come back to a quieter environment when we didn’t.

The Haven room video below.

https://youtu.be/p71kR1_AogU: Is the Norwegian Cruise Line Haven Worth It? My Honest Experience

We booked a 2 Bedroom Courtyard Villa. Did we need that? No. That is probably a splurge I would not do again, but I really wanted that bathtub overlooking the sea! And I used it to soak my aching feet after touring!

But Here’s What I Wouldn’t Say…

I wouldn’t tell every client to book The Haven.

In fact, there are plenty of situations where I would recommend spending that money somewhere else.

If you’re someone who:

  • spends very little time in your cabin
  • doesn’t care about priority services
  • is perfectly happy with a standard balcony cabin
  • would rather spend extra money on private excursions
  • or simply doesn’t value additional space and personalized service

…then The Haven may not be the best use of your vacation budget.

And that’s okay.

You don’t have to book the most expensive option to have an amazing vacation.

Where I’d Spend the Money Instead

This is where personalized travel planning really matters.

Let’s say you have a set budget for your Mediterranean cruise.

You could put all of your extra money toward the cabin.

Or you could choose a less expensive cabin and put that money toward private guides, private transportation, incredible meals or special experiences.

There isn’t one universally correct answer.

For our trip, we actually did both.

We chose The Haven and invested in private experiences in several ports.

That combination worked really well for us. This was a splurge celebration trip after my second cancer fight. We traveled with friends who also were celebrating and all in for a little splurging.

But if I were planning a trip for someone else, I wouldn’t automatically recommend doing exactly what we did.

I’d ask questions.

What matters to you?

How much time will you spend on the ship?

How much do you care about your cabin?

Do you want personalized service?

Are you more interested in food and wine?

Do you want private tours?

Are you celebrating something?

What’s your budget?

And most importantly:

Where will spending the extra money make the biggest difference to YOU?

So… Is The Haven Worth It?

For me?

Yes.

For everyone?

No.

And that’s actually my favorite answer because it means there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to travel.

For our Mediterranean cruise, The Haven made sense because we were looking for a combination of comfort, convenience, service and a place to retreat after extremely busy days.

Would I book it again?

Yes.

Would I recommend it automatically?

Absolutely not.

That’s the difference between simply booking a cruise and actually planning one.

Anyone can help you select a cabin.

The value of a travel advisor is helping you figure out which cabin, which itinerary, which experiences and which splurges make sense for you.

Because sometimes spending more makes your vacation dramatically better.

And sometimes it doesn’t.

My job is to know the difference.

The Bottom Line

If you’re considering The Haven for your next Norwegian cruise, don’t just ask:

“Can I afford it?”

Ask:

“What will it give me that I actually value?”

For us, the answer was more space, personalized service, priority treatment, quieter spaces and a more relaxing place to return to after exploring the Mediterranean.

And after seven nights, I can confidently say:

I’d do it again.

But if you’re planning a cruise and wondering whether The Haven—or any other upgrade—is worth the splurge, that’s exactly the kind of question I love helping clients answer.

Because I don’t want to sell you the most expensive vacation.

I want to help you plan the trip you didn’t know you needed.

Thinking about a Norwegian cruise? Contact me and let’s figure out where your vacation dollars will make the biggest difference.

cruise, Italy, Memory Keeping

Our Mediterranean Cruise: The Trip I Didn’t Know I Needed

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NCL Epic Mediterranean Cruise

Sometimes you take a trip because you’ve been dreaming about it for years.

And sometimes you take a trip and come home realizing you didn’t even know how much you needed it.

That was this trip.

It started as a trip to take a couple that had never been to Europe. Then another couple joined. It was planned for 3 couples. Then the original couple backed out. Reorganized again. I had to take into account that my husband and I were doing some things we had already done multiple times and create some new experiences for us. Our friends had done some, but not most. It was a long time ago, so they were up for anything.

We recently spent 7 nights cruising the Mediterranean aboard Norwegian Cruise Line’s Norwegian Epic, sailing from Rome to Barcelona. We traveled through Italy and France, ate an unreasonable amount of incredible food, drank plenty of wine, walked approximately a million steps, explored ancient cities and medieval villages, climbed a volcano, wandered through Florence, and somehow still managed to come home exhausted and already planning the next trip.

And as a travel advisor, this trip was something else, too.

It was research.

It was firsthand experience.

It was a chance to test the things I recommend to clients and figure out what I would—and wouldn’t—do again.

Most importantly, it reminded me why I love helping people plan travel in the first place.

We Didn’t Just Take a Cruise. We Planned an Experience.

One of the things I love about cruising the Mediterranean is that the ship is really only part of the vacation.

The ports are the adventure. Those are my favorite parts. Seeing all those magnificent places.

And when you have limited time in each port, how you spend those hours matters.

For this trip, we decided that we didn’t want to simply get off the ship, walk around for a couple of hours, grab lunch and get back on board. We also didn’t want to just do the ship-planned excursions this trip. Those can be perfect depending on circumstances, but for this trip and with our Haven priority privileges, it was better to plan independently.

We wanted to experience each destination.

That meant doing something a little different in almost every port.

We booked private guides and drivers for most of our experiences, while also choosing a few activities that allowed us to explore independently.

And that mix turned out to be one of my favorite things about the trip.

Some days were highly structured.

Other days were completely ours.

There were days when someone was waiting for us at the port with a plan that we were fully involved in creating and days when we simply wandered down a street in Florence because something looked interesting.

That balance is exactly what I want for my clients.

Starting in Rome

Our adventure began in Rome, where we had the opportunity to explore some of the city’s most iconic sights for 2 days before embarking the ship.

We had private experiences at the Vatican, St. Peter’s Basilica, the Colosseum and Roman Forum. Both booked via Get Your Guide.

Having a knowledgeable guide made such a difference. These are places where it is very easy to look at something beautiful or historic without really understanding what you’re seeing.

A good guide changes that.

Instead of simply seeing the Colosseum, you understand what happened there.

Barbara, our incredible guide

Instead of walking through the Vatican and trying to absorb everything yourself, someone can point out the details you would have missed.

We also did something completely different: we went underground.

Beneath the Trevi Fountain is an ancient underground archaeological site, and exploring it was one of those experiences that reminded me why I love looking beyond the obvious tourist attractions.

Everyone knows the Trevi Fountain.

But how many people know what’s underneath it?

Citta del Aqua

Those are the experiences I love finding. This was something I had never done and now would highly recommend it.

Sailing in the Haven

We also stayed in The Haven aboard Norwegian Epic.

And yes, it was wonderful.

But what I really wanted to discover was whether the experience was actually worth the additional cost.

The answer?

For the right traveler, I absolutely think it can be.

The priority embarkation, the additional space and privacy, the Haven amenities, the concierge and butler service, and simply having a quieter place to retreat to after a busy day in port all contributed to the experience.

But here’s the important part:

I don’t think everyone needs The Haven.

That’s something I tell clients all the time.

Travel isn’t about spending the most money possible.

It’s about figuring out where spending more will actually make your particular vacation better. In the case of a Mediterranean Cruise, it was highly valuable to just be able to get on and off the ship when we were ready in just a few minutes. This was especially helpful with private tours lined up.

That’s one of the things I enjoy most about my job—helping people decide where to splurge and where they can save.

Salerno: Ravello and Amalfi

When we arrived in Salerno, we had a private driver, Roberto, take us into the Amalfi Coast.

Roberto was wonderful! I booked the tour through a company based in Naples called Taxi Mister Cab Driver. Roberto was the luck of the draw and I’m so glad we got him, but from what I have seen, all the drivers are fantastic. We met a few in the course of our day when our plans overlapped and the OG driver, Ciro, sang us back to Amalfi on a boat!

Amalfi Selfie with Roberto

We visited Ravello and Amalfi, enjoying the scenery along the way rather than trying to cram as many stops as possible into the day.

The Amalfi Coast is one of those places where the journey is part of the experience.

The roads wind along the cliffs, the views seem to get more ridiculous around every corner, and eventually you realize that you’re spending half your time saying, “Look at that!”

Having a private driver meant we could enjoy the day without worrying about navigating those roads ourselves. Definitely important for the Amalfi Coast. Driving there is no small feat.

It also gave us flexibility.

And when you’re visiting somewhere like the Amalfi Coast from a cruise ship, flexibility is valuable.

Sicily: Mount Etna and Taormina

Our day in Catania was another highlight.

We met our guide, Chiara, and headed toward Mount Etna. I found Chiara on Tours By Locals, a new to me site that has become a favorite.

Yes, we climbed a volcano during our cruise vacation.

Greek Theatre Taormina

Because apparently we don’t know how to sit still.

From Mount Etna, we continued on to Taormina, where we visited the Greek Theatre and explored the town. Chiara lives in Taormina, she knew everyone wandering the streets and even got us a little taste of Ricotta cream that goes into the famous Sicilian Canoli.

And then there was the food.

We ate arancini, because you can’t go to Sicily and not eat arancini. Chiara recommended a fabulous restaurant and it did not disappoint.

Taormina was one of those places that made me immediately understand why people fall in love with Sicily.

The combination of history, scenery, food and that unmistakable Italian atmosphere is hard to beat.

Florence: One of My Favorite Days

Our Livorno port day may have been one of my favorite days of the entire trip. I do love Florence!

We had a private driver (booked via Viator) take us from the port to Florence, where we met our guide for a private three-hour tour. This guide was also booked on Tours By Locals and he was wonderful.

We explored the Baptistery, Duomo, crypt and Duomo Museum before heading to the Accademia to see Michelangelo’s David.

And then we did something important.

We stopped touring.

We had lunch.

We wandered.

We crossed the Ponte Vecchio.

We found a wine window.

We shopped for leather bags.

And we ended the afternoon with an affogato before our driver picked us up and took us back to the ship.

That day was a perfect example of why I believe travel shouldn’t always be about checking things off a list.

Yes, we saw some incredible sights.

But some of my favorite memories came from the time in between them.

The wine window.

The shopping.

The affogato.

The conversations.

The wandering.

Those are the things you remember.

Villefranche and Èze

In Villefranche, we decided to visit Èze Village.

Instead of taking the taxi offered at the port, we used Bolt, which ended up being significantly less expensive than the taxi quote we received.

We explored the Exotic Garden, wandered through the village and did some shopping before returning to Villefranche for lunch and more exploring.

It was another reminder that sometimes a little research can save you money without sacrificing the experience.

And yes, I notice these things.

It’s part of what makes me a travel advisor.

I’m always thinking:

Is there a better way to do this?

Is this worth the money?

Would I recommend this to a client?

What would I do differently next time?

Marseille

Our day in Marseille was another example of how much you can fit into a cruise port day without making yourself completely miserable.

We took a taxi to the Old Port and hopped on the Petit Train up to Notre-Dame de la Garde.

After taking in the views, we headed back down and spent some time enjoying coffee and wine before lunch.

We also had a wonderful wine tasting experience, which was one of those unexpected highlights that made the day feel less like a checklist and more like an actual vacation.

Because sometimes the best part of travel isn’t the famous landmark.

Sometimes it’s sitting down over a glass of wine with someone who loves what they do and hearing their stories.

And Then There Was Barcelona

When the cruise ended in Barcelona, we weren’t quite ready for the trip to be over.

We had a private transfer to our hotel in the Gothic Quarter booked through Welcome Pickups and spent time exploring the city.

We had tapas for lunch and later toured Casa Milà and the Sagrada Família with our private guide, Jaume. This tour was a Get Your Guide find and Jaume (Jamie) was fantastic. He was a former architect, so perfect to tell us all about Gaudi’s masterpieces.

Barcelona was the perfect place to end the trip.

And, honestly, I think adding a night or two before or after a Mediterranean cruise is not something just worth considering, it is a must.

You’ve already traveled all that way.

Why rush straight to the airport?

What I Took Away From This Trip

After spending ten nights experiencing this itinerary firsthand, I came home with a notebook full of ideas.

Things I loved.

Things I’d change.

Things I’d absolutely recommend.

Things I’d tell clients not to waste money on.

And probably most importantly, a much better understanding of what makes a Mediterranean cruise work so well for different types of travelers.

Because there isn’t one perfect way to do it.

A couple celebrating an anniversary may want something completely different from a group of friends celebrating a milestone birthday.

A first-time cruiser may need more structure.

An experienced traveler may want more freedom.

Some people will want The Haven.

Others would rather spend that money on private tours and incredible meals.

Some will want to see every possible landmark.

Others will want a long lunch and a glass of wine.

And that’s exactly why I don’t believe travel planning should be one-size-fits-all.

So… Would I Do It Again?

Absolutely.

Would I plan it exactly the same way?

Maybe not.

And that’s the beauty of having the experience.

Now I know more.

I know which splurges I’d repeat.

I know where I would save money.

I know which tours were worth it.

I know where I’d build in more free time.

I know which ports I’d approach differently.

And I can take everything I learned and use it when helping my clients plan their own Mediterranean adventures.

That’s the part of being a travel advisor that I love.

I’m not interested in simply taking an order that says, “We want a Mediterranean cruise.”

I want to know why you’re going.

Who you’re traveling with.

What matters to you.

What you want to experience.

Where you’re willing to splurge.

Where you don’t care.

And then I want to help you build the trip around those things.

Because sometimes you already know exactly where you want to go.

And sometimes you just know you need a vacation.

That’s where I come in.

I’m the person who plans the trip you didn’t know you needed.

And after this trip, I have a whole lot more Mediterranean ideas to share.

Stay tuned. We’re just getting started.

And be sure to follow along on Facebook and Instagram, where lots of reels and photos of the trip will be posted.

Day Trips, Memory Keeping, NorthEast Travel

A Book Lover’s Day Trip to Catskill & Hudson, NY

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Some day trips leave you feeling like you’ve squeezed in a lot. Others leave you feeling like you’ve slowed down enough to truly enjoy every moment. Our recent bookish adventure to Catskill and Hudson, New York, was definitely the second kind.

If your perfect day includes independent bookstores, cozy cafés, unique shops, and incredible food, add this trip to your list. Grab your bookish bestie and head off!

First Stop: Magpie Bookshop – Catskill, NY

We started our morning in the charming town of Catskill at Magpie Bookshop, an independent bookstore that instantly felt like home. Every shelf seemed carefully curated, making it almost impossible to leave empty-handed. And we didn’t.

My ✈️ read

There is something magical about independent bookstores. They’re filled with personality, passionate booksellers, and unexpected treasures you won’t find browsing online. Whether you’re searching for your next five-star read or simply want to wander, Magpie is worth the stop.

Catskill itself is full of historic buildings, colorful storefronts, and that small-town charm that makes you want to linger a little longer.

Across the River to Hudson

After browsing in Catskill, we crossed the Rip Van Winkle Bridge into Hudson, a town that has become one of my favorite places for wandering.

Warren Street is lined with beautiful architecture, antique stores, art galleries, coffee shops, and boutiques. Every block offers something new to discover, making it the perfect place to stroll without a schedule.

Of course, our main destination was another bookstore.

The Spotty Dog Books & Ale

If you’ve never visited The Spotty Dog Books & Ale, prepare to fall in love.

Imagine combining an independent bookstore with a cozy pub, and you’ll understand why this place is so special. You can browse shelves filled with books while sipping a local craft beer, cider, coffee, or tea before settling into a quiet corner to read.

It’s the kind of place where time seems to disappear. Book lovers could easily spend hours here.

Shopping Along Warren Street

Between bookstores, we explored some of Hudson’s wonderful local shops.

The joy of this town is that every storefront feels different. There’s always another hidden gem waiting just a few doors down.

Dinner at Feast & Floret

We wrapped up the day with dinner at Feast & Floret, and it was the perfect ending.

The atmosphere is warm and inviting, with a menu focused on fresh, seasonal ingredients. A flower bar where you can make a bouquet sits in the middle of the restaurant.

After a full day of walking, shopping, and book browsing, it was exactly the relaxing meal we needed before heading home.

Why I Loved This Day

Sometimes the best trips don’t require flights or elaborate itineraries.

Just a short drive from home gave us:

  • Two wonderful independent bookstores
  • A charming river town
  • Beautiful local shops
  • Delicious food
  • Plenty of inspiration for my ever-growing TBR pile

As both a traveler and a reader, these slower days remind me why I love exploring places just beyond my own backyard.

If you’re looking for an easy weekend adventure in New York’s Hudson Valley, Catskill and Hudson make the perfect pairing.

Have you visited either town? I’d love to hear about your favorite bookstores or hidden gems—I’m always looking for my next bookish adventure.

If you love books, consider joining Book of the Month. Your first book is just $5.00 and then a monthly choice of new hardcover books or audiobooks for a discounted price. You can skip months. https://www.mybotm.com/8oqu29ydjf3

Girls Getaway, Memory Keeping, NorthEast Travel

A Girls’ Getaway to Salem, Massachusetts: History, Charm & a Little Magic

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There’s something special about a weekend away with good friends, and Salem, Massachusetts, delivers the perfect mix of history, charm, great food, and just the right amount of spooky fun.


Our girls’ getaway started with what turned out to be the perfect home base: Broom & Board, a charming VRBO located at 26 Cross Street. The location couldn’t have been better. We parked the car when we arrived and didn’t touch it again until it was time to head home.

Everything we wanted to see, do, and eat was within an easy walk, making for a relaxed and stress-free weekend.

Our home for two nights was Broom & Board, a 2nd and 3rd floor of a house that was perfect for us. It had a large table for us to play our games on and a kitchen as well as 4 bedrooms so we each had our own room.


One of the highlights of our trip was taking a Witch City Walking Tour. Even if you’ve visited Salem before, I highly recommend starting your trip with a guided tour. The knowledgeable guides bring the city’s fascinating—and sometimes heartbreaking—history to life while sharing stories you won’t find on a plaque or in a guidebook. It’s the perfect way to get your bearings and gain a deeper appreciation for this iconic New England town.

No visit to Salem would be complete without exploring the Peabody Essex Museum. Whether you’re interested in art, history, or maritime culture, the museum offers something for everyone. We spent some time wandering through the exhibits and could have stayed even longer.

Of course, every great girls’ trip includes memorable meals. We enjoyed dinner at Turner’s Seafood, where the fresh seafood and historic atmosphere made for a wonderful evening. Bridget Bishop’s apple orchard sat on this site. Yes, that Bridget. Another favorite was Finz Seafood & Grill, offering delicious waterfront dining and beautiful harbor views. Both restaurants are excellent choices if you’re planning your own Salem itinerary.

What I loved most about Salem was how incredibly walkable it is. Between the historic streets, unique boutiques, cozy cafés, museums, and waterfront, there was always something interesting just around the corner. Without worrying about driving or parking, we could simply wander, shop, stop for coffee, and soak in the atmosphere.

Whether you’re planning a girlfriends’ getaway, a mother-daughter trip, or a romantic weekend, Salem is much more than its Halloween reputation. It’s a destination filled with rich history, beautiful architecture, fantastic restaurants, and a welcoming small-town feel that’s worth visiting any time of year.

Barb’s Travel Tips
● Stay downtown if possible—you’ll save time and parking hassles.
● Book a walking tour early in your visit to learn the city’s fascinating history.
● Wear comfortable shoes. You’ll be walking everywhere!
● Make restaurant reservations, especially during the busy fall season.
● Leave time to simply wander—you’ll discover hidden shops, historic streets, and unexpected gems around every corner.


If you’re looking for an easy New England escape where you can park the car, reconnect with friends, and spend a weekend making memories, Salem should definitely be on your list. Sometimes the best trips aren’t about checking off attractions—they’re about laughing with friends while discovering someplace magical together.


Have you been to Salem? I’d love to hear your favorite places to stay, eat, or explore!

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Explore South Lake Tahoe: Sunrise to Sunset Guide

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Morning: Sunrise and Stillness

Start your day early at Regan Beach, where the morning is quiet and the lake feels almost glass-like. Locals walk their dogs, paddleboarders drift across the water, and the first light paints the sky in soft pastels. It’s the perfect, peaceful introduction to Tahoe.

From there, grab a cozy breakfast at The Red Hut Café. This local favorite serves up hearty comfort food—think pancakes, eggs, and strong coffee that fuels the day ahead.

Late Morning: Scenic Views & Iconic Stops

No visit to South Lake Tahoe is complete without heading to Emerald Bay State Park. The overlook alone is worth the trip—arguably one of the most photographed spots in the region.

If you’re up for a bit of a hike, take the trail down to Vikingsholm. The path winds through towering pines and opens to a lakeside view that feels straight out of a storybook. It’s peaceful, scenic, and just challenging enough to feel rewarding.

Midday: Adventure on the Water

By midday, the sun is high and the lake is calling. Head back toward town and rent a kayak or paddleboard near Pope Beach. The water here is calm and shallow near the shore, making it ideal for a relaxed paddle or a refreshing swim.

There’s nothing quite like being out on that crystal-clear water, looking back at the mountains and realizing—this is exactly where you’re meant to be.

Lunch: Casual with a View

For lunch, stop at Artemis Lakefront Café. With Mediterranean-inspired dishes and a patio overlooking the lake, it’s a perfect blend of fresh flavors and unbeatable scenery. Light, bright, and satisfying.

Afternoon: Gondola Views & Village Wandering

In the afternoon, take a ride on the Heavenly Gondola at Heavenly Mountain Resort. As you rise above the trees, the panoramic view of the lake unfolds beneath you—and it’s nothing short of breathtaking.

Afterward, spend some time wandering The Shops at Heavenly Village. It’s lively, fun, and filled with boutiques, ice cream spots, and little corners to explore.

Evening: Golden Hour & Dinner

Make your way to Nevada Beach for sunset. This quieter stretch of shoreline offers a front-row seat to one of Tahoe’s most magical moments. The sky glows, the lake reflects, and everything slows down.

For dinner, treat yourself at Edgewood Restaurant. Overlooking the water, it’s the kind of place where the food is as memorable as the view—perfect for ending the day on a high note.

Night: Tahoe After Dark

If you’re not quite ready to call it a night, South Lake Tahoe has a lively side too. Head into nearby Stateline for a bit of nightlife—casinos, live music, and a fun, energetic vibe.

Or, keep it simple: take a quiet evening stroll along the lake, breathe in the mountain air, and let the stillness settle in.

A day in South Lake Tahoe is a perfect blend of motion and stillness—sunrise serenity, midday adventure, and sunset magic. It’s the kind of place where every moment feels just a little more vivid… and where one day never quite feels like enough.

Memory Keeping, NorthEast Travel

Chasing Waterfalls in Watkins Glen

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There’s something magical about a girlfriend getaway—especially when it blends breathtaking nature, cozy luxury, and a touch of nostalgia. Our long-awaited escape to the Finger Lakes brought all of that and more, with Watkins Glen as our home base.

Chasing Waterfalls in Watkins Glen

The highlight of our weekend was the crown jewel of the region: Watkins Glen State Park. If you’ve never walked the Gorge Trail, it’s truly something out of a dream. Nineteen waterfalls cascade through a winding stone path carved into the rock, with arched bridges and misty staircases that make you feel like you’ve stepped into a fairytale.

We took our time, stopping often—not just for photos, but to soak in the peaceful rhythm of water echoing through the gorge. It’s the kind of place that invites deep breaths and even deeper conversations.

Pro Tip:

Take the shuttle for a few dollars from the parking lot across from the main entrance to the top entrance and hike down. Much easier than up.

Lakeside Luxury & Late-Night Chats

Our home for the weekend was the beautiful Watkins Glen Harbor Hotel. Nestled right on the edge of Seneca Lake, it gave us the perfect mix of comfort and scenery.

Mornings began with coffee overlooking the marina, wrapped in soft robes and laughter. Evenings were for wine, charcuterie, and Rummikubs. Whether you opt for a hotel room or a nearby rental, staying close to the water is part of the magic. We stayed in a house they rent out across the street from the hotel.

Sipping Our Way Through Wine Country

No trip to the Finger Lakes is complete without wine tasting, and our visit to Glenora Wine Cellars (often affectionately called Glendora) was a highlight. With sweeping vineyard views and the lake shimmering in the distance, it was easy to linger a little longer than planned.

We sampled crisp Rieslings and robust reds, each pour accompanied by stories, laughter, chocolate and that shared appreciation for slowing down. It wasn’t just about the wine—it was about the moment.

A Touch of Nostalgia in Seneca Falls

A short drive brings you to Seneca Falls, a town rich in history and heart. We stopped on the way there.

First stop: the charming It’s a Wonderful Life Museum. Whether or not you’re a die-hard fan of It’s a Wonderful Life, it’s impossible not to feel a little nostalgic wandering through memorabilia and hearing the connections to this beloved classic. Be sure to walk down to the bridge George jumped off to save Clarence!

Just steps away, we explored the powerful National Women’s Hall of Fame. Celebrating the achievements of extraordinary women throughout history, it added a meaningful layer to our trip—a reminder of strength, resilience, and the importance of lifting each other up. It felt especially fitting for a weekend centered around friendship.

The Beauty of Time Together

What made this getaway unforgettable wasn’t just the waterfalls or the wine—it was the simplicity of being together. No schedules, no obligations—just a few days to reconnect, recharge, and remember how important it is to nurture the friendships that carry us through life.

Watkins Glen and the surrounding Finger Lakes region offer the perfect backdrop for that kind of escape. Whether you’re hiking through gorges, sipping wine by the lake, or wandering through history-filled towns, it’s a destination that invites you to slow down—and savor every moment.

California, Memory Keeping

A Perfect Napa Valley Weekend: Wine, Warm Sun, and Unforgettable Flavors

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Vineyards of Castello Amerosa

There’s something magical about a weekend in Napa Valley—the way the golden light stretches across the vineyards, the gentle pace that invites you to slow down, and the constant promise of something delicious just around the corner. This particular getaway blended cozy riverside charm, vibrant local flavor, and a touch of Tuscan-inspired indulgence.

Stay: Riverside Relaxation at River Terrace Inn

Tucked along the Napa River, the River Terrace Inn was the perfect home base for the weekend. Mornings began with coffee on the patio, wrapped in the calm of the flowing river and rustling trees. Its location made everything feel effortlessly close—downtown Napa just a short stroll away, yet the setting felt like a peaceful retreat.

Evenings here were especially dreamy, with soft lights reflecting off the water and the distant hum of wine country winding down for the night.

Local Flavor at Oxbow Public Market

No Napa weekend is complete without a visit to Oxbow Market. This lively marketplace is a feast for the senses—artisan cheeses, fresh oysters, small-batch chocolate, and local wines all under one roof.

We wandered from stall to stall, sampling bites and soaking in the energy. It’s the kind of place where time disappears, and you find yourself saying “just one more taste” more times than you can count.

Dinner to Remember at Cole’s Chop House

For a classic Napa steakhouse experience, Cole’s Chop House delivered in every way. Rich wood interiors, perfectly cooked steaks, and an impressive wine list made this dinner feel like an occasion.

Each bite was indulgent and satisfying—the kind of meal that lingers not just in memory, but in that contented feeling long after you’ve left the table.

History of Cole’s Chophouse

In the late 1890s, the roof of the Williams-Kyser building on Main Street in Napa—now home to Cole’s Chophouse—became the temporary, macabre resting place for the remains of William Roe, the last man to be publicly hanged in Napa County.

Following a brutal 1891 home invasion robbery and murder of Captain John Greenwood and his wife Lucina, William Roe was eventually captured and executed on January 15, 1897.

The Grisly Story of the Rooftop Skeleton

  • The Exposure: After his execution, Roe’s body was dissected for medical study. In a bizarre turn, his skeleton was placed on the roof of the Williams stone block (now Cole’s Chophouse) to bleach in the California sun.

Italian Elegance at Ristorante Allegria

Ristorante Allegria, where the charm of Italy meets Napa sophistication, was the perfect late night drink and dessert spot. Set in a beautifully restored historic building, the ambiance alone is worth the visit.

A Culinary Highlight at Oenotri

Oenotri was a standout—rustic, bold, and deeply rooted in Southern Italian flavors. Everything felt intentional, from the house-made charcuterie to the perfectly balanced dishes that showcased seasonal ingredients.

There’s a casual confidence here that makes you feel like you’ve stumbled upon something truly special.

Wine Country Magic at Castello di Amorosa

No Napa experience would be complete without a winery visit, and Castello di Amorosa is unlike any other. A full-scale medieval-style castle rising from the vineyards—it’s both whimsical and breathtaking.

Walking through its stone corridors and candlelit cellars felt like stepping into another world. And the wine? Just as memorable as the setting. Tastings here are immersive, rich, and a little bit magical.

The Takeaway

This Napa Valley weekend was the perfect balance of relaxation and indulgence. From riverside mornings to candlelit dinners and castle wine tastings, every moment felt curated yet effortless.

Napa isn’t just about wine—it’s about slowing down, savoring deeply, and letting each experience unfold at its own pace.

And if there’s one thing this weekend proved, it’s that a few days in Napa can feel like a world away. 🍷

Memory Keeping, North Carolina

A First Hug, 22 Years in the Making: A Biltmore Estate Getaway

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Some trips are about the destination. This one was about a person.

After 22 years of messages, milestones, late-night chats, and shared life from afar, we finally met—in real life—for the very first time at the breathtaking Biltmore Estate.

And somehow, it felt like no time had passed at all. From pregnancy and meeting in a Babycenter Birth Club board (April 2003), through 22 years of almost daily chats via email, to Asheville, North Carolina.

First Impressions & The Perfect Home Base

We checked into the charming Village Hotel on Biltmore Estate, tucked right in Antler Hill Village. Cozy, elegant, and just steps from so many experiences, it became our little home base that felt both surreal and completely natural.

And delicious food and beverages…

Stepping Into Another Era

Walking up to the grand Biltmore House is like stepping into a living storybook. Built by George Vanderbilt, the mansion is as opulent as you imagine—ornate ceilings, endless rooms, and details that whisper history at every turn.

But what made it unforgettable wasn’t just the grandeur—it was experiencing it together. Every room sparked conversation, laughter, and those “Can you believe we’re actually here?” moments.

Gardens That Feel Like Magic

If the house is the heart of Biltmore, the gardens are its soul.

Designed by Frederick Law Olmsted, the grounds felt like a dream we could wander through endlessly. Summer blooms painted everything in color, and we took our time—walking, talking, and soaking it all in.

It wasn’t rushed. It wasn’t scheduled. It was just… easy. Like our friendship had always been.

Sipping & Celebrating at the Winery

We sampled everything from crisp whites to bold reds, laughing over favorites and pretending to be far more sophisticated than we actually are. Each sip felt like a quiet celebration—of time, of connection, of finally being in the same place.

The Beauty of “Finally”

There’s something incredibly special about meeting someone who already knows your story—your highs, your heartbreaks, your everyday life—and getting to see their smile in person for the first time.

No awkwardness. No small talk. Just comfort.

We weren’t just visiting the Biltmore Estate—we were marking a moment 22 years in the making.

Until Next Time…

As we said goodbye (which was much harder than the hello), we both knew this wouldn’t be another 22-year wait.

Because once you’ve walked through gardens, shared wine, and stood side by side in a place as magical as Biltmore… you don’t go back to just being online friends.

You go forward as something even better.

Travel Tip:

Stay on-site at the Village Hotel to fully immerse yourself in the estate experience—early access, easy transportation, and the ability to linger just a little longer in all the magic.

If you’re dreaming of a trip that blends beauty, history, and meaningful connection, Biltmore Estate delivers something truly unforgettable.

And if you can share it with someone who’s been part of your life for decades—even from afar—it becomes something even more rare:

A memory you’ll carry forever. 💫

Memory Keeping, NorthEast Travel

A Perfect Coastal Weekend in Ogunquit: Lobster Rolls, Ocean Views & a Boat Tour to Remember

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There’s something about the salty air of Ogunquit that instantly slows your pace and lifts your spirit. This charming seaside town—whose name fittingly means “beautiful place by the sea”—delivers exactly that. Think sweeping ocean views, quaint coastal paths, unforgettable seafood, and a day that feels like it was made just for you.

🌺 Strolling the Marginal Way

Start your morning with a walk along the iconic Marginal Way. This paved cliffside path winds along the Atlantic, offering breathtaking views at every turn—rocky coves, crashing waves, and sailboats drifting in the distance. Benches invite you to pause, breathe, and just take it all in.

At the end of the walk, you’ll arrive in Perkins Cove, a picturesque harbor filled with boutique shops, art galleries, and that unmistakable New England charm.

🍴 A Memorable Meal at That Place

After working up an appetite, settle in for a cozy and delicious meal at That Place In Ogunquit. Tucked slightly away from the main bustle, this local favorite is exactly what its name promises—that place you’ll be talking about long after your trip.

The menu blends comfort food with creative flair. Whether you go for fresh seafood, a perfectly cooked steak, or one of their signature dishes, everything is thoughtfully prepared and beautifully presented. The warm, inviting atmosphere makes it feel like a hidden gem only locals know—except now you do too.

Pro tip: Don’t skip the butter that comes with the bread. And don’t skip dessert. Trust me.

⛵️ Set Sail on an Ocean Adventure

No visit to Ogunquit is complete without getting out on the water. Head back toward Perkins Cove and hop aboard a scenic cruise with Finestkind Scenic Cruises.

These boat tours offer a front-row seat to Maine’s rugged coastline. As you glide past lighthouses, hidden coves, and dramatic cliffs, keep an eye out for seals basking on the rocks and seabirds soaring overhead.

The guides are knowledgeable and entertaining, sharing stories about the area’s history, fishing traditions, and marine life. Whether you choose a peaceful sightseeing cruise or a lively lobster tour, it’s an experience that brings the spirit of the coast to life.

Wrapping Up

End your day back on shore with sandy toes and a full heart. If time allows, catch the sunset at Ogunquit Beach—a wide stretch of soft sand that glows golden as the sun dips below the horizon.

A weekend in Ogunquit isn’t just a stop on a map—it’s a feeling. It’s the taste of fresh seafood, the rhythm of the waves, and the kind of simple, beautiful moments that stay with you long after you’ve gone home.

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